2. Marital break down and family back ground – Discuss with the divorce solicitor how you and your husband came to be. Show marriage certificate and relate how you’ve come to the decision of a divorce. Mention who did what and the faults of the other party. Discuss also the family structure, like how many children you have so that child custody can also be decided upon.

3. The divorce process – Talk to the divorce solicitor as to what factors will affect the expense of the divorce and its expediency. Discuss how long you could possibly settle things and what you will need in order to go through the whole process.

4. Questions – Prepare a list of questions for the divorce solicitor when you have a sit down. Ask about time, expenses, possibilities and other legal issues. Ask about how you can make the case fair for both parties and advantageous for the children. If you wish, you can sit down with your partner so that you can both ask questions to the solicitor. There are a lot of legalities regarding divorce and you shouldn’t wait to be lectured about it. Make an effort from your end to learn things so that you won’t have a hard time. If you pick divorce solicitors from foreign places like maybe in the UK, make an effort to communicate on line. They are willing to do forum discussions.